If God wanted discipline, then he should have sent a legion of angels to defend his son. It is very easy to frighten people into doing something. It would have absolutely terrified them into avoiding sin and make them cower before him.  When you refused to deny your son and continued to love him, even though he told you he was homosexual, you also were forgiven of your sin’s by God. After all, can you imagine a God that would show less compassion than one of his people.  Your son only had one partner, whom he loved all his life.